Things i learned from having "zero /nothing / nadda / non-existent / nil" lovelife

1. you don't "TRY" to fall in love. you just fall in love.

2. it's as same as: love just happens. it is never forced - period.
(so never dare suggest to somebody who's single to fall in love. it's the dumbest
thing to do.)

3. if you're juggling both LOVE and CAREER, you'll eventually drop one..
BUT you don't have to lose either - just don't juggle 'em up. hold them both tight.

4. and yes, #3 is possible. if you love yourself -enough- to love them both.

5. the length of time spent together is not a predictor of where you're heading to.

6. there's simply no unit measurement for love.

7. love is blind - is WRONG. it can see all things. even your imperfections.
true love "loves" even your biggest zit. otherwise, love is in denial.

8. love may either be benign, malignant or wrongly diagnosed.
it occurs, it may reach on remission, it can always recur, and it may have never
been there at all.

9. love songs are overrated. anybody can make one.

10. love is universal. even an unattached person (like me) can write a book about it.
so teaching someone "how to fall in love" is stupidity.